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Women’s Lived Experience Voices

The Women’s Voices Group offers women, who have left their abusive relationship, the opportunity to engage in discussions, with the aim of improving services in Leeds through their lived experience. Engagement opportunities are offered in a range of ways including attending groups either face to face or on-line, 1-1 with a support worker or via email or telephone. Your level of involvement is your decision. There is no time constraints or commitment to engaging regularly. Your anonymous feedback is given to organisations, with a commitment from them that they will explain how they have used the feedback given and what difference it has made.

Women who engage in this work have talked about feeling supported in their recovery journey, being part of something which is making a real difference in Leeds and a happy and welcoming project to be part of. Read some of our participant quotes at the bottom of this page.

As a women’s group who have all experienced domestic violence and abuse, we wanted to have a symbol to represent us now – to reflect how we far we have come on this journey, and inspire the beauty and freedom of being our own true self. The butterflies we created are a representation of that and we are proud of who we are and what we have achieved being part of this project.
If you would like to join the Women’s Voices Group, please contact Nicola Marlow at: [email protected] or telephone: 07741552499

Latest News & Projects

Training Podcasts
In the first 18 months of running, the project has delivered resources to the Workforce Development Team to help in the delivery of domestic abuse training across Leeds. This includes podcasts talking about what good support looks like and where the victim-survivors are now, victim-survivors reflecting on their own journey with services, identifying learning opportunities and advice for those working with victim-survivors of domestic abuse.

Police Podcast
For seven months in 2024 we worked directly with the police. This work involved group meetings with senior personnel, individual meetings to reflect on the police handling of specific cases, meetings to explore police culture and language used with victim/survivors as well as identifying training opportunities.
The work was a success and has resulted in the police making internal changes to departments to improve the communication between DA Officers and Offender Mgt Officers. The police has acknowledged lessons learned in individual cases and informed the victim/survivors of the changes already being made to reduce this happening again, the project has developed a podcast to share within the police and with victim/survivors regarding this piece of work.

Leeds Domestic Violence and Abuse Strategy Foreword

Senior decision makers in Leeds who attend the Domestic Abuse Local Partnership Board asked the women’s group to co-write a foreword for the Leeds Five Year Domestic Violence and Abuse Strategy. Councillor Coupar attended one of the women’s group and the foreword was written, in the words of the women to reflect their involvement in developing positive outcomes for future victim-survivors.

Read the full foreword here: https://www.leeds.gov.uk/plans-and-strategies/leeds-domestic-violence-and-abuse-strategy

Domestic Abuse Awareness, One Year On Poem

(Content Warning) This powerful poem was written by a participant of the women’s group. The poem reflects on Lily Rose’* feelings throughout abuse and her journey of recovery. The poem was written and recorded in Lily Rose’* home, with her pets close by, which have been hugely important in helping her create her own safe space and recover from the impacts of abuse. *Pseudonym

Media Coverage – Driving Change within West Yorkshire Police

In November 2024, the women’s group of the Domestic Violence and Abuse Voices Project’s achieved media coverage for their work with West Yorkshire Police to create meaningful change for victim-survivors of abuse.

BBC News

BBC News covered the story on the national BBC website homepage, the article shared participant of the women’s group, Fran Murphy’s, story, along with quotes from The Voices Project Manager, Nicola Marlow and Det Supt Heather Wilson. Fran and Nicola’s words were also featured in the news bulletins on BBC Radio Leeds.

Fran describes how impactful this work has been for her, “To say that police have absolutely listened, they have let me share my voice and for me to be heard is absolutely huge for me.”

Read the article here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cg7gr0xnndlo

Greatest Hits Radio

Greatest Hits Radio West Yorkshire featured interviews with Nicola and Fran as the hourly news bulletins to to raise awareness  of Clare’s Law, the Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme. Since working with the women’s group of The Voices Project, use of Clare’s Law has increased by 650% in Leeds.

The interview was also covered as an online article, read it here: https://hellorayo.co.uk/greatest-hits/west-yorkshire/news/number-of-people-requesting-clares-law-increasing-in-leeds/ 

Nicola Marlow (left), Fran Murphy (right)

Nicola Marlow (left), Fran (right).

 

Raising Awareness around the Festive Period
Victim-survivor, Fran, tells her story of fleeing her abusive relationship on Boxing Day and explains why Christmas is a particularly difficult time for those experiencing abuse.

Quotes from Participants

“As a women’s group the opportunity to share our experience is invaluable, reassuring, empowering, as we now have a voice.”
“To be able to speak and to vocalise all of these things that I’d held inside, and all this anger and upset amongst other things was absolutely incredible.”
“All of us were listened to and that just knowing that we have raised issues and these have been fundamentally changed, is nothing short of a miracle.”
“I am glad I am part of this fantastic work and able to help make change in the community.”
“I just want to say on a personal level a big thank you. I am a true believer that you meet the right people at the right time in your life and it’s been incredible getting to know you and the work we’ve done so far – this work has helped me a lot and done wonders for my confidence and self-esteem. Please can I also thank you for inviting me to the victim group – I really do enjoy it. Let’s bring 2024 on in style, being the amazing women warriors that we are.”

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